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''Your Life Is Your Private Party''

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Your life is your Personal Party' 

[An energetic attunement to finally turn up for your private party and start enjoying it.] 

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This statement carries an energetic attunement. When I tell you to start enjoying your private party, that's exactly what will begin to happen.

 

World Is The Projection of Your Mind- Vedas

(Passing On The Legacy of Unintelligent Living)​

You are what your mind is. Your life is what your mind is. 

It's hardly a revelation that the human mind is stuck in anti-life mode.  

I have worked with hundreds of individuals, each unique in their own way. However, I have consistently noticed one common thread among them: they all carry wounds inflicted by their immediate family. The dynamics within the family lay the foundations for a person's course of life. Early on in life, everyone is put on an internal course of destiny that will manifest in reality. The inner climate starts forming in infancy and sets before the child is 10 years of age. The rest of your life will follow the same blueprint. The internal climate plays a crucial role in the general unfolding of life. 

Infancy is the most alert consciousness that a person will ever experience in their entire life. The baby is all there, all eyes and ears, sees and hears the subtle vibrations of people, and absorbs energetic impressions from the air in the home. The innate intelligence is sharp as it comes.

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The adults have already started energetically transmitting their stale inner climate to the baby. It's a natural process. This shining light starts to dim on a daily basis. The fresh mind is already subject to intensive and incessant programming. Before he/she are 10, a persona, an inner space of a belief system, a world of personal perceptions, tons of suppressed emotions, is already functional.  Along the way, this package will keep gathering more from others,  ending up as other humans, doing what everyone else is doing, aspiring to what everyone else is. Over time, the disconnect will be complete. The unchallenged mind resists introspection, so it will act in entitlement, seek fulfilment in success or even a spiritual journey.

 

It's pretty bog-standard human stuff. The human mind is, in essence, anti-life, anti-joy and anti-freedom. Such is the horrendous conditioning imposed on the mind from the get-go. No escape!

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​Mind Is Artful But Immature

 All dysfunctionality, disconnect, un-love, un-care, and psychological suffering start in the family. Humans have not yet learnt how to live in harmony within their homes. The family is the root of the chaos in the world. The family is the true world; the world out there is nothing more than your imagination. If you were asked to show someone the world, you won't be able to because there is no world other than what you read and hear in the news, on the internet, or on the grapevine. There is no world out there.

People engage with the world. Watch the news, talk about it at the dinner table, and worry about it, put the world to right constantly, or perhaps feel relaxed that the world is now spiritually progressing. What world? 

 

The world out there is real; you can't be present with others because you are absent from yourself.  The world, your personal world, is in the four walls of your home. It's no imagination. You have living, throbbing people who are your own flesh and blood. Engage with them. 

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Mentally Absent Adults

The children are looking at mentally absent parents. Parents have something else going on inside, while right here, this glorious little person is withering away from the lack of attention and engagement. Parents were lost behind a newspaper, now a tablet, a phone, so children become awkward and do the same. They copy. The parents have put them on a path of disengagement and disconnect. Nobody in this world feels seen or heard. Everyone has to do extraordinary and absurd things to get people's attention. Social media is that energy.

Spiritual folks are that energy craving to be seen, heard and acknowledged. All this can be saved if you settle down to be present to your children, to the handful of people within the family. We can't address the tiniest challenges and send missions to the Moon and Mars. The collective stupidity of humans is on another level.

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People are deeply unsettled. Now they have started engaging with inner growth via Yoga, meditation or whatever, but have disengaged further within the family. What good will that do? The spiritual people are more unsettled than others. Babies, children, young adults and adults crave deep connection and heartfelt engagement. We are made that way. No amount of inner-work will compensate for that. Get engaging with real people in your home.

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Laxmi Stays in a happy Home

They say Laxmi stays where families live in harmony. That's the ancient Indian way to encourage families to stay engaged and harmonise with each other.

 Family can become, and often does, a haven of harmony and fun. Thats the starting point of a prosperous human. They say Laxmi stays where families live in harmony. That's the ancient Indian way to encourage people to stay engaged with each other.

If you learn to be with a family in a state of love and heart-connection, you will generally be in that space with everyone else.

That will have a chain reaction. That will be the start of the true awakening of the planet, not by everyone meditating, attending spiritual retreats, or getting enlightened. Just get real with the family, the world is alright. Leave the world alone. Attend to yourself and your family.

If world peace is your aspiration, it may happen if you are in harmony within your family.

When you are Self-centered, the self-wrapped desultory stances leave you.

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Fostering Peace Where It Is Needed The Most.

I love people. People, their minds, their stupidities, their quirks, their beautiful hearts, their potential, the human condition fascinate me, no end. This world experiences so much suffering and spiritual confusion because people are absent from their 'personal party,' often seeking contentment elsewhere.

​I approach the family, your private world in a simple yet profound way. I have not encountered spiritual teachers or books that regard ordinary life with the same sense of reverence and fun. I find it somewhat amusing that this straightforward approach to life within the family seems to be uniquely my own. All knowledge and wisdom should be invested in the beautification of the family, their day-to-day life, so that joy and love in the world can flow from the roots upwards. 

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Your Private Party

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What do you do after self-realisation? You live like never before! You arrive at your personal party and enjoy yourself. What else?

You don't have to wait until self-realisation. Everyone's private party is in full swing, but they have yet to arrive. Start engaging, and you will enter the celebration. 

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If everyone recognized this fact and attended their own party, there would be less fighting as well as spiritual circus in the world. I am constantly in awe of how abundantly pro-life existence is. She wants us to enjoy ourselves.   Existence has hosted a party in my honour. It simply wants to see how much you can enjoy the abundant gifts that are presented to us. To see if you can play well, enjoy yourself.  Can you be shameless in enjoying and honouring the gifts that are given freely and abundantly? What if that is the only plan? I enjoy myself immensely with my senses. What stops you? What moral teaching stops you from enjoying yourself like a child? Could you enjoy yourself, being you, living your life, that you would naturally embrace death with the same pleasure? 

That is the game as I understand it. It is not about awakenings. Life is bigger than the spiritual circus.  Live fully engaged and without embarrassment. Life's greatest achievement is the daily celebration of your private party.

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I attune you, and you start enjoying your day-to-day life like a celebration. Much like Satyayuga (the golden age of consciousness), people would simply live as they are meant to, with greater humanity and self-awareness. That part of my work satisfies me the most.

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